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Friends with Benefits?

Posted by Jeremy Blanchard on January 5, 2012 at 6:00pm 2 Comments

I Want To Be Like Jerry When I Grow Up

TV guide named Seinfeld the greatest television show of all time.  That's debatable, but I know that I watched every Seinfeld episode at least twice!  Like many others who were dedicated to the show throughout the 90's, I've quoted multiple one-line zingers from Kramer when reminiscing on the most hilarious episodes.

The humor was unforgettable, but I was also intrigued with Jerry's short lived relationships with a handful of beautiful women.  One that sticks out is the "friends with benefits" agreement Jerry and Elaine tried to pull off.

I Tried  

As I watched episode after episode of Jerry and George talk about their broken relationships in a flippant way over coffee, I falsely learned that the value of a dating relationship is in the quantity and quality of sex rather than the quality…

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The Odyssey of our Journey Towards Integrity

Posted by RJP on December 1, 2011 at 5:15pm 1 Comment

The Odyssey of our Journey Towards Integrity



 The Odyssey by Homer is one of my favorite stories. It's a story of the warrior-king Ulysses on his return back to his wife and family following the Trojan War. He is opposed at every turn by the angry sea-god Poseidon and other villains obstacles. When I first read it as young boy in English class I was captivated by it's adventure, intrigue and mystery. Reflecting today on my life in the Spirit as a Christian man in a sex-saturated world, I can't help but see some timeless truths for mankind today. Although just a fiction story, for me it is a powerful allegory of the significant steps I've taken being transformed from the bondage of darkness into the marvelous light of truth and freedom.

 The painting…

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From Porsche "Obsession" to Porn Obsession

Posted by Jeremy Blanchard on November 25, 2011 at 7:30pm 0 Comments

This is the question that I would ask myself time and time again: "Why the @*#! do I keep doing this." Which really meant: "Every time I use porn, I feel like a loser, but I can't stop doing it, I'm such a FAILURE!" These thoughts led me to a familiar "pity" party - and guess who was the DJ...DJ sex alot!

Porn has been called the "crack-cocaine of the Internet". To me it was like Godiva chocolate to a sweet tooth, or bread to an Italian. At times Porn looked so dirty to me...but at times porn looked like a white Porsche 911 Slant Nose Turbo - yeah...I grew up obsessing over this sports car and no I don't own one..yet :)…

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How We Are to Fight Against Impurity

Posted by Jeremy Blanchard on October 6, 2011 at 10:30am 4 Comments

If you have heard of this book, "The Spiritual Combat and a Treatise on Peace of Soul", I would be very impressed. The first edition was publishes in Venice in 1589 and no one knows who actually wrote the book.

Here are some golden nuggets of spiritual combat that I think will help you in your daily spiritual walk...

Be Cautious



In the 19th chapter of the book, the author makes a strong call to avoid sexual sin like the plague of 1512 (joking). The author writes that our greatest strength, even if we have come along way, is to weak for such a powerful force as lust. "You are more susceptible to occasions of this sin than straw is to fire" - True that!

Avoid Idleness.

The author then points a man towards the best use of his time. Have you found this aspect of your sexual freedom important? Do you find that when you have free time to spend without…

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How can I immediately stop sexual temptation's allure - especially when it is uninvited?.

Started by Jeremy Blanchard Dec 9, 2011. 0 Replies

"My biggest struggles come when I get caught off guard by a seductive glance from a woman."What do you do when this kind of thing happens to you? Do you have any specific prayers or thoughts that…Continue

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